Thursday, December 27, 2007
Last b'day of the year
Have a happy b'day, जियो हजार साल! Keep laughing and bring आनंद to everyone around you!
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Happy B'day Bobby
Vacation
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Tenth milestone wishes
Many many happy returns of your tenth anniversary, wish you set many such milestones in your marital life.
(Sorry for the belated wishes though, it falls on 14th December !)
Friday, December 14, 2007
Let the fresh air sneak in
Throw open the windows and let the fresh air sneak in!
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Happy Anniversary
Many many happy returns of your anniversary, have a fantastic new year in your marital life!
Thursday, December 6, 2007
Friends like family
Welcome little fella
Friday, November 30, 2007
Right is always not right
We put tremendous pressure on them to succeed, be smart, which leaves very little incentive for them to deviate from routine, learn new things and innovate. As employees we are rewarded only for good performance and the same is true for the society. So we are becoming increasingly reluctant to admit our mistakes and in the process stop acquiring knowledge or doing something new or different. We try to look only for the data that confirms our beliefs, try blaming others for our mistakes.
As IBM’s Thomas J. Watson, Sr., noted, “If you want to succeed, double your failure rate.”
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Unconditional Love
Children teaches us too, only if we are willing to listen. They challenge and force us to look at ourselves, our imperfections. Salute the resilience of parents of challenged kids, the unconditional love they bestow on their wards.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy B'day Bulli
Friday, November 23, 2007
Self Denial
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Happiness
So the best thing would be do things that produce lasting changes in satisfaction levels - lend a helping hand and make difference in at least one person's life ?! My grandfather was a lot happier person and never showed an iota of ego or jealousy or greed and helped a lot of people in need.
हिन्दी में ब्लाग
Friday, November 9, 2007
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Sunday, November 4, 2007
Deepavali
Hope the festival, lights up the lives of every one and bring joy and fun to every home.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
One year in Singapore
Kalyani was circumspect initially, but she seems to have adjusted well. Both the kids have started attending the school which is a major achievement. I have joined Deutsche leaving CS, trying to resurrect a career that has stagnated for a while. On a sad note lost grandpa who passed away at the ripe age of 93 years.
Well, to talk about Singapore it is definitely a good city, very clean, well laid out. But the cost of living has sky-rocketed since we arrived here with the rentals almost doubling in one year. With more and more expats arriving here the demographic is slowly changing from yellow to more coloured.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Grind
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Monday, October 8, 2007
60 years
To borrow from the Four Square advt - May you, "Live life king size"! Happy Birthday Nanna.
Monday, September 24, 2007
Chak De India
Great stuff and hearty congratulations to Dhoni and team !
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Every 14 days one language dies
Surprisingly the study did not list India among the endangered language regions, considering the fact that India once upon a time flourished with hundreds of more languages and thousands of more dialects. This makes me worried that I may not be able to pass on my language to my kids and through which the rich oral culture it embodies. Telugu may be one of the dominant languages and not endangered per the study, but it may soon be forgotten and less spoken by the onslaught of English.
Am I not hypocritical blogging here in English? Anyway let me at least remind myself of the sayings of two great Telugu persons ever born - SriKrishna DevaRaya and Srinadha Kavi about my mother tongue and feel good about it.
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Saturday, September 8, 2007
Life of a vegan
Apart from other disadvantages like finding a vegetarian dining place while living or visiting another country there is this little known occupational hazard - participating in team lunches and undergoing the ordeal of eating Buddhist delight (uncooked vegetables in soy sauce and vinegar).
Friday, September 7, 2007
Collapse
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Monday, August 20, 2007
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Friday, August 17, 2007
Bliss
Remember the first flush of love and all the qualites about each other you found so endearing that drew you powerfully together? Do not fret and squabble, enjoy the day!
Lots of love and best wishes, have a happy anniversary!
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Sub Prime melt down
Often used to wonder about the kind of innovative products they have created around these home loan obligations - ARMs, REMICS, Sub Prime mortgages, CMOs, RMBS.., and firms in New York added hundreds of thousands of jobs and have grown by leaps and bounds each year. Mortgage trading desks, the big bullies of investment banks over shadowed everyone else and used to dictate terms and everyone else's bonuses!
Is it a coincidence that my desertion caused this havoc, just kidding ?!
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Sunday, August 5, 2007
Anniversary wishes
Monday, July 30, 2007
Art of Parenting
The thoughts presented were simple yet effective -
- Parents should not use comparison and competition as stimuli for achievement and performance.
- Accept child as an individual and the relationship should be primarily based on love and freedom.
- Each child is unique, comes with some kind of gift or some treasure - may be academic or practical.
- Do not suppress a child's natural curiosity by saying "NO" to everything.
- Children look up to their parents in terms of moulding themselves, so beware of your actions!
Prapte tu Shodeshey Varshey Putrey Mitravadacharet
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Amma, the dearerst
Friday, July 27, 2007
To prove all over all again :-(
It is monday blues everyday, giving me jitters at the thought of landing like a pigeon among the cats. Stop denigrating yourself man - apply these simple rules !
- Borrowing from Tom Friedman "Curiosity Quotient + Passion Quotient >= Intelligence Quotient (I will call it knowledge quotient)". Knowledge is power, do not stop acquiring knowledge, it will be your ultimate saviour. Have the passion and curiosity to learn and continue to learn.
- Don't try to be a perfectionist, stop telling yourself "I am ignorant, Alas! Had I known that", make an attempt, a sincere one!
- Set a smart goal and achieve it - try setting one goal for yourself per week that is SMART - Smart, Measurable, Achievable, Rewarded and Time-limited.
- Whatever you do remember yourself and your family.
- Stop procrastinating, if you know you have to do it - do it now!
Thursday, July 19, 2007
rising rupee
It is a whole new dimension to the effects of globalization!
Friday, July 13, 2007
odd man out !
Had a strange feeling working on a computer that has only Microsoft office and Lotus notes mail client installed. The initial impression is that lot of people are logging minimum 10 hours on the job doing routine work.
I have n't actually got any real idea about - what's in store for me - bumpy ride or a ride free of turbulence. Pretty sure it will be an exciting war between mind and heart - a mind that won't let me overcome my innate fears and a heart which wants me to fly high.
Currently reading Fooled by Randomness
Sunday, June 24, 2007
new endeavour
Currently reading Rich Dad Poor Dad
sorry state of affairs
That fellow initially told me to "manage" the person concerned. I did not understand what does he mean by "manage", I started arguing with him and gave him an impression of confrontation. He got terribly wild and scratched the immigration form with comments "not allowed due to damaged passport". Time was running out and I was the only person who had not reported at the boarding gate (15 minutes before departure). Then the wisdom dawned upon me and suddenly I realized the meaning of "managing a person". I rewrote the form at the suggestion of the immigration clerk and stuffed 1000 rupees in the passport and presented it. That did the trick - NO OBJECTION was raised, instead the clerk suddenly became very friendly and started suggesting how I can fix the laminated cover using a gum stick.
This is the sorry state of affairs at our immigration check posts, they would let smugglers and fraudsters to get away and escape from the country, where as people like me are harassed.
Friday, June 22, 2007
Happy B'day Sreenu
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Monday, June 18, 2007
Happy Birthday Anjali
Lots of love from chinnu, vamsi, Aamma and Pedanana
Happy Birthday Dear Vamsi
Friday, June 8, 2007
Vacation
Lots of things to do, only 9 days to go!
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Happy B'day Dear Jaanu
Sunday, May 27, 2007
Another career change in the offing
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Happy B'day Sukanya
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Song of life
All these ten years together, to borrow from "Ella Wheeler Wilcox", it has been like -
Best wishes to my wonderful wife and many thanks for all the wonderful memories and the memory of - the chuckles when the priest said "mangalyam tantunanena", when I have nothing in my purse.
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
Monday, April 30, 2007
Inspirational quote
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
- Marianne Williamson in "A Return To Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles"Happy B'day Pratyu
We are so happy and blessed to have you in our life. We wish you a fun-filled and
joyous new year in your life. - Amma, Nanna and Vamsi
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Happy B'day Padma
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Monday, April 2, 2007
Enjoying what we do?
Why do we do something which we don't enjoy?
Am I really enjoying what I am doing? If I say yes, it is a plain lie! Why am I feeling tired and uninspired? When did it turn from something I really enjoy to a chore? When did I begin yearning for the weekends and start dreading Sunday evenings?
Then the million dollar question crops up - why am I doing something, which I don't enjoy? The reason probably is the unwillingness to disturb the status quo! Also may be I have no courage to adapt to new challenges brought in by a change?!
We spend the vast majority of our lives working, and while it won't all be wonderful and satisfying, we need to make changes before we hit a point of no return -- when our dissatisfaction begins a downward spiral!
But do I know what I want to do, that makes me/keeps me happy?
Friday, March 23, 2007
new addition to the family
Sreenu, Leela and Janaki - Hearty Congratulations! Chinnu akka and Vamsi anna are very happy and sending their best wishes.
Monday, March 19, 2007
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Happy B'day Sunny
Obituary
May your soul rest in peace Grandpa and we will not forget your ideals.
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Happy B'day Chaitanya!
May you be blessed with all the good things in life and make your parents happy and proud.
Blessings from all in the family.
Money
It was important for Vamsi to know the importance of water in our lives, but, I should not have compared water with money, not because water is precious than money( in some sense it is), but because money as a means of comparison is unnecessary for him to know. May be I am wrong! Kids understand money as they know that it takes money to buy toys and gadgets.
Just about every decision we make and much of our personality is formed in some way, shape or form by our beliefs around money. It is an incredibly good/bad vehicle for seeing our issues and vulnerabilities and shows up in issues of control, safety, self esteem and well-being. It is the language kids and elders both understand and unfortunately has become the language of choice this morning when communicating with Vamsi.
Friday, January 26, 2007
Sunday, January 14, 2007
Happy Sankranthi

Tuesday, January 9, 2007
little rascal

The stress brought in by the pace of the modern life in adults affects them in many ways - especially their emotional well being. Childhood is a critical phase of life and must be protected to be fully experienced. The question is, how can we do better to help them enjoy their childhood with respect as individuals?
Friday, January 5, 2007
Grandpa
It is a pity, I have n't visited him in more than one and half years. He always wanted me to stay in Guntur with the family. My heart goes out to you Grandpa! I wish you good health and pray that you lead your remaining life with dignity.
Thursday, January 4, 2007
Panic
Why do we panic? Many circumstances when we panic does not warrant us to be panicky at all. Lots of issues we encounter daily can be solved by being patient and let the problem solve itself. But there will many circumstances which require us to react. But lot of other circumstances can be avoided by being pro-active.
Thinking of being pro-active, how many of us really follow this great saying in Geeta - karmanye vadhikarasthe maa phaleshu kadachana
Remember the "good times/bad times" theory inherent in our culture, which our elders constantly remind us. By definition good times will not last forever and bad times will certainly end by definition.
Of course, medical emergencies are a cause for panic and there should only be a few situations that warrant panic. I know - saying is easy, but serving here myself a reminder not to panic for trivial things.
Monday, January 1, 2007
Resolutions - are n't they meant to be broken?
Eventually, making resolutions turned into a reflection on past mistakes and a vow to do better in the future. It is always easy to start afresh, as it is easy to sweep past sins and mistakes under the carpet.
Do not want to disclose here but, again made a few new year resolutions - hoping to do better this time.
phone line grid lock ?!
HAPPY, HEALTHY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 2007
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